With all due respect (I’m quite excited for Returnal as well), if you want games like Returnal, you should probably hop over to PlayStation. There is honestly no shame in it. If Xbox isn’t doing it for ya, there’s no need to stick by out of some sense of loyalty. Maybe sell your Series X (if you have one) and wait a couple years until the pipeline is in full force and we have a full picture of the gameplay. By then, the price should have dropped, and you can see about rejoining.
As someone frustrated by years of silence from Nintendo and pushed over the edge by their mistreatment of Wii U owners, I invested in an Xbox One S and played it more than probably my last 3 home consoles combined. It was the right fit for me. That doesn’t mean I don’t love Nintendo or don’t want them to do better, but they no longer have to to keep me content.